Sometimes it amazes me when we fumble around with our actions. We are unsure of what we are supposed to do. Although we want to do them, we still have this sense of uncertainty, of being judged or seeming a bit wishy-washy because we don't know how we will be perceived.
In everything we do, we need to own it. By this I mean embrace it, take responsibility for it as yours. Walk into that room owning yourself, your walk, your talk. Write that book or story or poem and own those words. Don't think about them or if someone will like them--own them.
Own the way you drive, your decisions, your feelings, your thoughts.
Own it all.
Once you own it, yourself, you will truly be alive.